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Full Disclosure: I asked Jordan, one of my employees to share her experience working and training with me.

When I met Jordan 8 or so months ago, she looked tired.  When I learned she was so tired after only 1 year of full time work, I felt sad for her.  An opportunity arose to come on board here at Self-Transformations and I hired her.

I knew I would need to train her up (being only one year into her career) but it was important to me to train her up in a way that would benefit both her and her clients.  Afterall, what is the point of making money and helping clients if we are only on a road to being burned out?

The reason I asked her to share her story was because she isn’t tired anymore and looks so much happier. I can book her solid sometimes without even a single break in a 6-hour shift and she doesn’t complain (and absolutely could).  I’ve been an employed LMT so I know how hard we work and allow my employee’s to set their schedules within reason and certainly their breaks if they need.

Here are Jordan’s words:

“Starting out as a massage student I was bright-eyed and eager to learn. While I do feel that I received a useful and thorough education, the work took a toll on my body from early on. My instructors in school helped me to correct glaring body mechanics mistakes and told me I simply needed to build strength, that my body was adjusting to something new. I experienced some improvements in my aches and pains during school, but as I graduated and moved into my career issues tended to creep up every now and then, some becoming more persistent problems over time.

I quickly realized that some of the methods that my instructors employed would not be functional for me, such as constant use of my thumbs, which caused ever-increasing pain in my joints and wrists. I experimented and made adjustments to how I worked, with some improvement, but the aches and pains popped up in other places. A fully booked week of massages began to elicit dread and exhaustion rather than excitement, and I wasn’t even a year into my career as a massage therapist. I’d often think that such a physical job must simply take a toll, that’s just the way it is. It’s just how it has to be, right?

About seven months into my career, my boss sent me to training for a new modality and I met Charuta. As a therapist with twenty years’ experience she was a wealth of wisdom, and over time I ended up accepting a position with her. Through our first six months together, with much training and education, I drastically changed the way I work.  I stopped using my thumbs, fixed my posture, stopped looking down, and opened my chest, just to name a few issues of mine. I began to notice that there were more good weeks, more days where I wouldn’t feel exhausted or go home hurting.

The good weeks stretched into good months. I went from being physically unable to do more than four hours of massage in a day to successfully doing five or six and not feeling exhausted.  All the while I had Charuta as a resource when a new ache would pop up, always ready with knowledge and adjustments to fix the problem.  While I still have to be mindful of how I use my body to work and diligent in policing my bad habits, I can work with far more ease now than I used to. Over six months my aches and pains have decreased by well over sixty percent. A career with longevity feels possible, whereas a year ago I was unsure how long I’d last.”

Now, some of you skeptics could say, “You are her boss, she has to say these things.”  In a world of so much fakery, maybe. Consider instead that I have a mission, not just to help grow my female-family owned business so I can retire someday, but that I genuinely like helping people and now that I’m 20 years in, the people I truly want to help are massage therapists.

It breaks my heart that people like Jordan are everywhere, breaking their bodies to earn a very modest living.  I feel sad when therapists think hurting or being exhausted “is just part of the job” and I feel especially irritated when I hear of teachers in massage school saying things like, “You simply need to build strength.”  I’m not especially strong.  I’m not especially athletic and I certainly don’t have the super thumbs to use them for deep downward pressure (which they were never meant for).  Yet, I can still give 20-25 hours of massage per week and have since I started in 2005 and now, because Jordan and my paths have crossed, maybe she can too!

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Chārutā AhMaiua, Licensed Massage Therapist

Owner of Self-Transformations Massage

Specializing in Therapeutic Barefoot, Myofascial ReleaseDeep Tissue & Trigger Point Therapy